Rejection, Failure and how to deal with it

 Dealing with rejection and failure.

How you react to people, situations, rejections and failures is YOUR CHOICE.

What people say, how people act or what situations come up may be beyond your control. However, YOU dictate what you do next, not the situation, not somebody else. Own up, chin up and move on.

There is nothing such as "I don't have a choice". You always have a choice. There are however painful choices and less painful choices. People often chose the less painful choice. And that choice is justified by saying "I don't have a choice".

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