Lovestruck....

questions, questions, questions! and answers that never seem to come....
Women, to me are the perfect examples of the Chaos Theory - one thing you do wrong now will end up having severe repurcussions later, much later and over and over again. Experience, it seems doesn't teach the Men too much in this case. Maybe we're bound by our actions and limitations. Maybe that girlfriend of yours who remembers what color of shirt you wore on the 17th date and how it wasn't ironed and eas an embarresment is just bat crap crazy. Maybe the boyfriend who kept you waiting on New Year's is an undeserving idiot. Or maybe it isn't so, we don't see it so, the World's a funny place and the people in it are funnier still.

Relationship trouble seems to be the biggest trouble for people today. Not the stupid dead end job they're in or the wonders that the burgers, pizzas and aerated drinks are doing to their bodies. Elation, Anxiety, Happiness, Dreaminess and much more intervened inevitably by sadness, crying, depression, hate and onset of OCD for long long durations. Its irritating for the people around, specially the dreaming part. And those best at giving relationship advice are inevitably the ones who either never had one or failed miserably in it.
Undying love went away when people became practical....

Freud said 'Isn't what we mean by "falling in love" a kind of sickness and craziness, an illusion, a blindness to what the loved person is really like'?
I'm sorry Dr. Freud, but the good folk over at Archies, Hallmarks and most jewellers would disagree on that. So would most people who grew up with Mills & Boons, Lionel Ritchie, Shah Rukh Khan movies (special note - Dil To Pagal Hai) and teddy bears, roses, Toblerones and heart shaped balloons.

The odds of finding true love in life are as much as those of Tusshar Kapoor actually speaking in the next Golmaal movie (okay, a bit of eaggeration maybe, or maybe another R in his name would help)! But you meet someone, talk, meet again, talk more, like and date and love depend on just too many variables. Place, time, day, mood, what you talk, where you go.... Again it all boils down to the Chaos Theory - order in disorder, or complete disorder whichever way you look at it.
Although it does not discount hope....